What’s in a surname?
Well, for some, it’s the one thing that identifies and defines them in the universal public forum for the rest of their lives. I present Lisa-Marie Presley as an example.
For most of us though, we’re bequeathed our father’s last name and that, quite simply, is that. Now, however, this trend of assuming your father’s name appears to be taking quite the sharp turn in the opposite direction.
This week Teresa Palmer, the Aussie actor most notable for her role in Warm Bodies and her husband Mark Webber, welcomed their first baby into the world and released the following picture and statement via Instagram.
“Thank you God for blessing us with the most divine gift of our baby son. Introducing Bodhi Rain Palmer born safely, lovingly and naturally last night. 8lbs even.”
She added:
“Bodhi means “Enlightened one” Rain means “Abundant Blessings From Above” and we chose Palmer as his last name as Mark’s son Isaac didn’t take his dads name either.”
At first glance, this all seems a bit unusual. Not only Palmer’s decision to give her son her last name and not her husband’s but also, equally as interestingly, her apparent need to justify this decision with a detailed explanation.
Regardless of marital situation, naming babies after their mums isn’t often the case. EVEN when women have been successful and established under their own surnames, they will still often name their children with their partner’s family name.
Yet, recently it would appear that this tradition is about to change. Starting, most notably, with actor Kate Winslet.
Winslet, who has three children with different biological fathers, has given her children her last name – and defended her decision publically when her third child, Bear, was born.
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"Surely the whole “family name needs to be continued” reason only applies to royalty these days? And even then, I’m sure many would argue that George Middleton could still rule Great Britain just as effectively."
Actually the royals in Britain don't have 'surnames' for everyday purposes. For the male-line grandchildren of Elizabeth II, there is currently some uncertainty over the correct form of family surname to use, or whether there even is a surname. The Queen has stipulated all her male-line descendants who aren't princes shall use Mountbatten-Windsor as their family surname (or just Windsor) which is a 'house' name rather than a surname per se.
William and Harry have used 'Wales' (their fathers territorial designation) as a surname in both university and the military.
Even if it was 'George Middleton' rather than 'George Cambridge' he would still rule as King George as kings and queens have no surname - just a house, which would still be Mountbatten-Windsor even though his 'surname' is Cambridge.
And he may not even be King George if he chooses to take a different regnal name like his great grandfather (Albert who became George VI).
Kate Winslet's first two children don't have her last name. Her daughter Mia and son Joe have it as their middle names. Her youngest son Bear has her last name as opposed to his father's 'Rocknroll'. It's not difficult to see why this choice was made. I believe a parent has the right to name their child whatever they wish, however I do think writing "this trend of assuming your father’s name appears to be taking quite the sharp turn in the opposite direction" is extremely inaccurate when you only have one instance in which it has occurred.
Fair call. Especially since he changed his in the first place, so she would literally be giving her kid a made up name, that refers only to the dad (and no other family).