1. “All I can do is wave a piece of paper.” Q&A asks whether AVOs are actually protecting women.
A domestic violence survivor believes Hannah Clarke could have been her and AVOs are not an “appropriate protection for people who are trying to be free”.
Geraldine Bilston’s chilling triple zero call was played on ABC’s Q&A last night, in which she could be heard screaming: “Oh my God, he’s trying to hit us in the car”.
Hannah Clarke and her three children were doused in petrol and set alight inside their car by her estranged husband, before he killed himself on February 19, 2020.
"I lived for many years in an abusive relationship and I guess I've gotten somewhat used to reading about and seeing the weekly murders of women by their current or ex-partners," Geraldine explained on the ABC program last night.
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Two of these stories hit a nerve with me. The alcoholic driver and domestic abuse.
Last year I let an old friend stay who’s wife had an AVO on him and he had a serious alcohol problem. We picked him up from a wrecked car one evening as he was homeless and suicidal.
When I hear about the drink drinking I keep thinking he could have been that idiot killing all those kids with wreckless behaviour.
We saw the other side of the AVO- his wife continued to break it herself by calling, and meeting up with him then changing her mind. He would then begin acting like a psycho and sending threatening texts. She called the cops and by time 3 he was jailed. So AVO’s do work to an extent.
Jail however is ridiculous- no options for rehab or help with anger management- it’s just a wild bunch of thugs thrown together trying to survive. I ended up finding him a long term rehab which he is still at. I hope it helps as his family want him
back- I just worry about what could happen if things go wrong. They move back in and he does something daft and she leaves him I am worried he will lose it in a very bad way. But you can’t jail people for ever and his partner is in charge of her own choices. I just hope they are slow and sensible and follow through with real mental health support.
What about those men who are just angry - they don’t get the option of rehab. Surely if we have people locked up for months in remand we can put the time and money in to help people be better humans instead of worse.
My point is these monsters are also our family and our friends and surely we should be doing our best to divert people onto a better path if we can.
AVO’s are complicated as you can’t just lock people up without good cause. Police do take them seriously and they can intervene. In this case the guy had not done anything to indicate he would do this do I don’t see what option they had.