Dear people of the world,
I know we’ve had this discussion before, but apparently it still hasn’t totally caught on:
Anonymous notes are a no-no. Always. No excuses. No exceptions.
If you can’t say something to someone’s face, you shouldn’t say it all. Or, at the very least, you should just bitch about it behind their back like a normal, respectable person.
Who do you think you are?
If you need (yet another) example of why passive-aggressive behaviour always ends in tears for everyone, let the following case act as a cautionary tale.
A local man was angry because a car he didn’t recognise stole his parking spot.
Fair to be pissed off? Yes. Fair to leave a note? No. (See? We’re learning!)
The man decided to leave a note anyway, because he had not read this helpful guide to being a functioning member of society.
Top Comments
I think if it's done with the right manner then a note is fine. The above is obviously quite aggressive and plain unreasonable!
For eg: I used to live near an adult learning centre & my side of the street was the only place people could park, almost daily I would have people park ACROSS my drive way. Each time I would leave a note pretty much saying "can you please be more mindful when you park, it makes it very difficult to get my car out of the driveway when you block it"
I would note which cars did it & if they did it again I'd report it to the council - what else could I do? I wasn't about to stand there all day waiting for them to arrive at their car!
God forbid you buy a new car and don't warn the neighbour in advance...