Katie Lang is the last person you’d expect to be drawn into a prostitution ring.
Living on the Gold Coast at 22, she grew up in a world of privilege. She had an excellent education, a job she loved, a supportive family and great friends.
Her life was panning out just the way she intended – and then she met Damion Baston at a nightclub.
“It was almost like there was like… it sounds weird, but like a light above him, and he just stood out. I was just kind of drawn to him,” Katie says of her first time meeting Damion.
What Katie didn’t know then was that Damion was a pimp, set on seducing vulnerable young girls and offering their services to his clients for cash.
She didn’t know that Damion would eventually force her to work as a stripper and a prostitute overseas, watching on while her captor manipulated more women into his criminal ring.
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I think this needs to start before kids get to school. If their parents model acceptable behaviour, that's what kids will consider the norm. We can't be dumping all of this onto teachers, in the first instance this needs to come from parents and relatives. If we wait until they get to school it'll already be too late.
I really wish schools would start tackling domestic violence in a realistic way - teach young women and men, to walk away the first time they are hit. Of course not all relationships turn violent, but I do believe the vast majority of DV relationships do start that way (in the first 6 months) Forgiving the first time seems to be a crucial downfall for victims in a controlling/violent relationship, with everything going downhill fast after that. The fact is, when the behaviour is accepted, then it sends the wrong message to the perpetrator that it is considered acceptable (if they apologise and act remorseful). We really need some tools for young people to recognise the signs and act accordingly, hopefully long before the first hand/fist is thrown. It's a complex issue though ...
My mum taught me not to let a man hit me. At age 30 a boyfriend hit me during a fight, was about 6 months in, I left straight away. Women need to know its unacceptable and yes its embarrassing , annoying to change your life etc... but its worth it for the self confidence you feel knowing you didnt put up with it.
As a teacher I'm really sick of people saying "we need to start teaching this in schools". We have a limited amount of time and resources. Education can be a powerful tool to solve many different problems. However it is not always up to the education system to provide that education/guidance. Parents play a role too, remember.
I think it's primarily the parents (who often teach by example) and then the society at large, including school, who have a lot of influence on the way a young person understands the difference between right and wrong. I'm not sure if you are suggesting a special 'how to behave in relationships' subject be thought at school but it doesn't seem enough to truly mound a person and it's way too much responsibility for schools alone. If my child turned out to be a terrible person I would definitely not be blaming their school
Yeah it's not the teacher's responsibility. I've always though DV being taught at school should be similar to other issues like Safe Driving, Safe Sex, Bullying, Healthy Lifestyle/Eating etc, where the school employs people to hold annual seminars.