By MARY WARD
One in nine women will develop breast cancer by the age of 85.
In Australia, 34% of those women will have a mastectomy during the course of their treatment. That’s over 3% of the Australian female population. In the US, the figure is much higher, closer to 6%.
This is a significant segment of the population. The strong and inspiring group of women who have beaten breast cancer, more likely than not, contains someone you know. Your mum, you sister, your aunt, your grandma, yourself: this is a group of women who have faced months of gruelling treatment and managed to come out the other end.
So, why can’t these warriors buy pretty bras?
It’s not a trivial question. The reality of a life post-mastectomy is that the sexy and stylish lingerie survivors once enjoyed by these women have to be replaced by specialist garments which leave a lot to be desired in the aesthetics department. Lingerie companies pride themselves on developing the confidence of women; why can’t breast cancer survivors be afforded that same experience?
Well, if one American mother-daughter duo has their way, they will be.
Meet Allana Maiden and her mum, Debbie Barrett. Debbie is 21 years cancer free, and an inspiration to her daughter.
After all that her mum had been through, Allana hated her mum struggle to buy – and afford to buy – specialist bras for her post-masectomy body.
So, at the start of this year, she did what any good Gen Y gal would do; she made a Change.org petition asking US lingerie giant, Victoria’s Secret, to make a survivors’ bra, for women who have had a mastectomy.
Top Comments
I'm 25, never had cancer nor a mastectomy, but I don't have boobs. They just never grew. I'm 5 ft 9 with a size 12 bum, and otherwise an in-proportion, curvy woman. But I have NO boobs. And I'm not exaggerating. Not only do I not need a bra, but none exist to fit me, because there's nothing to go in there.
To be honest, I don't care. Have you ever noticed how uncomfortable bras are? I just wear singlets. And secondly, I don't really care that I don't look "sexy". Believe it or not, it's not my main goal in life. Plus, I can look sexy if I want. You don't need boobs to look good.
The problem is not the lack of bras, the problem is the obsession with boobs at all. It's right up there with, "my tummy is too fat" "my bum is too big" or "my nose is crooked". We're always talking about loving our bodies, right, so where did "loving our bodies" become "but not if you don't have boobies" ??
I am about to turn 50 and I had a bilateral mastectomy last July followed by 6 rounds of chemo. I have chosen not to have a recontstruction and I dont wear prosthesis. Try finding comfortable crop tops that look fun and a little bit sexy. Most of the time I wear nothing under my tops but sometimes tops are a little too see through or a bit low cut- yes I still like to wear those - and I need something to wear. I have finished up buying some in the girls department and they are uncomfortable and make me look like a pre-pubescent girl with a training bra ( and I have nothing to train anymore) and they only come in white. I have some boob tubes but with no boobs they dont stay up. Winter time is sorted - I love a good camisole.