By NATALIA HAWK
Every so often, a reader mistakes me for an Agony Aunt and emails me a fitnessy-related crisis to solve for them. To you, MM reader, I say: well done. A problem shared is a problem halved, and all that.
This week, I received the below:
When am I supposed to exercise? I actually just DON’T have the time. I live out way out west of Sydney and have to get up at 5:30 to get ready and get to work on time.I usually work through lunchtime and then don’t get home until about 7pm. When I get home, I have to cook dinner for my partner and I, and then clean everything up. I also do uni by correspondence so that’s something I usually do at night too.
If I ever have spare time, I like to use it to relax. And I don’t want to cut back on sleep or get up earlier or anything – I don’t sleep enough as it is!
I also don’t want to join a gym because it’s too expensive. So, apart from weekends, when I usually get in a bit of running, when am I supposed to exercise??
– MM Reader
Now. I know that many personal trainers call bullshit on the whole “I don’t have time to exercise” thing. That there are 168 hours in a week and that everybody can give up at least four of them to dedicate to cardio/strength training/whatevs.
I disagree. Sometimes, life is complicated and there is no time. I know the feeling and I know it well. Sometimes, life is frantic and the wheels just fall off and there is no time to think about what to have for lunch, let alone whether you can attend yoga class.
I hate those days. When you find yourself crawling into bed far past your bedtime and you don’t so much fall asleep as just pass out. When you’re at an airport already ten minutes late for your flight, buying lunch (in the form of potato chips) at the newsagent because you haven’t eaten in 18 hours. When your husband has gone away and your kids have been screaming and fighting for six hours and all you can do is collapse on the kitchen floor with a glass of wine.
Sometimes, entire weeks can disappear past me in a blur of late nights and early mornings, assessments and work tasks. And unfortunately, for the great majority of us, convenience is not on our side. We don’t have a home gym, or a gym membership, or a personal trainer to turn up on our doorstep every morning to do a quick 20-minute workout before work.
So, in summary – I understand. I do. And here are my suggestions for you:
Top Comments
If you want to find time to exericse you will, if you don't, you won't. Even Barack Obama finds time to exercise.
I heard somewhere him and Michelle get up an go to the whitehouse gym a t about 4 in the morning where they exercise and plan their day. It's like 'their' time. Think it's kind of cute
I totally get this too, however I recently read a quote that seriously stuck with me - "There's always someone busier than I am going for a run." Sometimes you just have to make the time. I look at that lady's email and think, why are you working through your lunchbreak? Yes, I am guilty of this 80% of the time, but do you get extra pay for it? Do you get thanks? There will always be work to do but the only person that's going to make time for yourself is you!
Also, the cooking and cleaning midweek - I have gotten into the habit of doing maximum organisation at weekends which means minimal cooking mid-week. I'll always have stuff in the freezer or recipes that can be thrown together in minutes, or I'll give the recipe to my husband to cook and buy in the ingredients. It means I can exercise after work and when I get home, preparing dinner isn't a hassle.
Incidental exercise is all well and good but I actually think it's more important that with the ridiculously busy lifestyles every seems to have these days that you actually step back and look at ways you can make more time available for yourself. No-one else is going to do it for you, so sometimes you just have to take control. Exercise is important for the body and the mind, and it's important that we realise this..