Breastfeeding is a deeply personal experience and, for many women, not one that always comes easily.
It’s a relationship of sacrifice — if that baby won’t take a bottle, it’s you and you alone responsible for ’round the clock feeds — but also one with great rewards.
So when the time comes to give up the breast, a lot of mums find themselves feeling very emotional. I know I did.
But a new trend known as a ‘weaning ceremony’ is helping mums to come to terms with the end of their nursing journey and celebrate the relationship they have shared with their babies.
Weaning ceremonies are not a common tradition in Australia, but that’s not the case in other countries.
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The Leaky Boob website (great name, guys) explored the idea of weaning ceremonies. It says the celebration can be tailored to each mother and child and can involve the baby, or be more of a private means of marking the end of breastfeeding for the mother.
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I myself am expecting my first in a few months, and I do understand breastfeeding and even bottle feeding your baby is very special at the time, however if my mother had presented me during my life (a child or teen or now) with a letter from her or the story of 'our' breastfeeding journey, or given me a gift to remember 'our time as a nursing partnership' I'd have been extremely uncomfortable, it'd just feel a bit inappropriate. I'd think taking a photo at some point during the infant phase, and maybe the mother could have her own personal diary entries to read back on, perhaps gratitude for what her body could do. But I don't think it's something to be shared by wider family or the child themselves. Simply recognise that it's a new chapter for you both, and remember the old one fondly, that sounds healthy and normal to me.