While there are many unexpected turns in life, pregnancy is something the vast majority of people plan for. From who we sleep with, to birth control, financial planning, career consideration and where you live, starting “the next chapter” is something we’ve all considered at some point in our life.
For some though, parenthood comes as a complete shock, with approximately one in every 450 women don’t know they are pregnant until the half way mark at 20 weeks.
Even more extreme are the women who had no knowledge of their pregnancy until they went into labour.
For 23-year-old Londoner Klara Dollan, who had been taking an oral contraceptive for a number of years when falling pregnant, her weight gain was minimal and could put down to comfort eating following a breakup. Skipping her period was a regular practice, so its absence was not notable.
“I’d put on a bit of weight in most places, but I have a photo of myself in a bodycon dress at seven months pregnant and you wouldn’t know it,” the law student told the Daily Mail. “The only thing I would say is I noticed the top half of my stomach was very hard when I touched it, about a month before the birth.”
Severe cramping at work lead Dollan to return home, where she then spent hours pacing, with heavy bleeding and screaming coming later. By the time a neighbour came to check on Dollan and an ambulance was called, and “extremely painful urge to push” had already begun.
“My neighbour was in the corridor and I was screaming: “It’s a baby, oh my God! It’s a baby.'”
Klara Dollan didn't know she was pregnant until she went into labour. Source: Facebook.
Just minutes later, Dollan was cradling her newborn. "I couldn't believe I had a baby in my hands. I was in complete and utter shock," she says.
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I personally know at least 3 women who have been in this situation, and one of them experienced surprise pregnancy twice!. 2 found out in the last 3 weeks of pregnancy, the 3rd only found out when she presented at the hospital with stomach cramps. All 3 intelligent women, using contraception.
It's incredible how symptoms can be missed, misdiagnosed, or just not present in some women.
These are all cases of denial. The brain is a very complex organ, when you switch on the 'denial' button you can get through anything.
Looking at some of the photos, it's not hard to see why they didn't notice anything. At least one was on the pill; she didn't expect it to fail. Another was still getting regular periods. This is not as uncommon as you think, and is a real thing.