By LUCY ORMONDE
A 20-something woman is desperately struggling to pay her rent. She works as a freelance writer but the income isn’t cutting it, so she makes a fraught decision to sell her body.
In the traditional sense “selling your body” means sex work but this isn’t a story about prostitution. This is a story about a girl who wanted to sell her body parts. Specifically, her eggs.
In the USA, women can legally “donate” their eggs for financial compensation of up to $10,000 per cycle.
And egg donation is no easy business. The women who are involved, certainly earn their money. A typical donor must have a full physical examination, ultrasounds, blood tests, genetic tests, access to family medical records, take fertility medications and go through egg retrieval.
But for women who are struggling financially, $10,000 is not just a lot of money – it can be life changing – and it is absolutely worth it.
In a recent article for Slate Magazine, Kaye Cain-Nielson wrote about her reasons for signing up for egg donation- namely the $8000 compensation and the allure of a “freedom from debt”.*
I could use the money. I could assess the risks as abstractions: Who is to say that I would rage uncontrollably at the excessive doses of hormones? Would it be so bad? Would cancer be so bad? What seemed less abstract was my need to eat, have shelter, and the luxury of time to live rather than simply work, work, work.
Egg donation, as an option, can be seen at once demeaning and empowering: A job that no one else but a woman can have — or rather, a racially pre-selected, usually white, struggling, middle-class, educated woman — can have.
For the infertile, the homosexual, the single, and the well-to-do, egg donation is another of the joyous luxuries of modern science.
The egg donation industry is perhaps the only industry in the USA where the number of ‘jobs’ currently outweighs the number of applicants. But the wait for those couples who are seeking a donor egg is absolutely nothing compared to the situation in Australia.
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I have donated my eggs before! I donated 1.5 years ago to a wonderful lady i met who was 46 and unable to conceive- she had already tried IVF once with a failed attempt from a 30 year old women. The experience was worthwhile and over the 2 months i had to inject needles for about 2 weeks, and i had to take a month off work due to cramps etc. It is very hard on the egg donor. But luckily i produce very high quality eggs as i am only 24 and have a great cycle! She got pregnant on the first try and now has a healthy little boy who is 1 now!!
Due to university fees being so high and the price of living for some people, i believe people should be paid to donate. The month off work i took off cost me $2300 in lost money. I even received a bill for a blood test.. But that was later sorted out. People in the US are compensated up to $10,000.. People pay about 15 thousand to travel over there for treatment to conceive. Not just anyone can donate, there is strict guidelines, blood-tests, family health checks. Australia is to strict!
I don't believe it is exploiting to offer some kind of compensation for time, some people may struggle to conceive but have the money to make it happen, others may have quality eggs but no money.. I don't think anyone should ever give 10 thousand cash to a donor, but maybe offer help with a fee for schooling or give something in return as a "Gift". And for all those people saying they would definitely do it- GO DO IT. Help someone! Don't just write it here ;)
For a single mom of 1 teen who struggles every day, I would interested in doing almost anything to provide more for my son - is there truly anything a mom won't do for their child? I would donate a kidney or such if it was possible, and while yes it is amazing to be able to help out another wanting a family, we also need to turn around and look at how many people will go out of their way today for another, even when it costs them nothing - almost none - it's not nice but it is the reality. I find it troubling that anyone should endure this type of invasion and discomfort (is there anything more invasive than an ultrasound Doppler invading your delicates??) and do so simply because they should help a fellow man when I would say in most cases the egg recipient would never have done so much as lend a helping hand to the donor if they met on a street. Be honest everyone, how many people do we walk past everyday without so much as a hello or a smile that costs is nothing? Eggs and the procedure to extract them are NOT nothing. I also would have to say I cant imagine many males donating after having a probably very old and unattractive male doctor perform the 'mechanics' needed for extraction of sperm - awkward much ? Try being female! I didn't even have these tests with my own child and certainly no 'special' ultrasound. The only internal was to check dilation in labour for goodness sake. So yes whilst my opinion is probably not popular or 'pc' I do stand by it and hope that it gets others to think a little past the pretty details of donations. Sadly the law will probably never come to a place here in Aus that reviews the real situation because the facts almost never get to enter these type of discussions - and not even online sometimes.