For Sheryl Sandberg, Mother’s day has come just six days after the one year anniversary of the death of her beloved husband, Dave.
The Facebook COO has written a touching tribute to single mothers after realising how difficult it is to work, live and love without a partner.
“On Mother’s Day, we celebrate all moms. This year I am thinking especially of the many mothers across the country and the world who are raising children on their own,” Sandberg wrote.
“People become single parents for many reasons: loss of a partner, breakdown of a relationship, by choice. One year and five days ago I joined them.”
The world of being a single parent was “new and unfamiliar” for Sandberg after the sudden death of her husband and she didn’t quite understand how hard it was.
“I did not really get how hard it is to succeed at work when you are overwhelmed at home. I did not understand how often I would look at my son’s or daughter’s crying face and not know how to stop the tears. How often situations would come up that Dave and I had never talked about and that I did not know how to handle on my own.”
She says she still is left asking herself, “What would Dave do if he were here?”
“I never understood how often the world would remind my children and me of what we don’t have—from father-daughter dances to Parent Night at school. Until we lost Dave, my brother said that he too did not realize how many “father” events there were at their public school in Houston and how hard they must be for the many children without fathers.”
As Sandberg so poignantly points out, the world that she faces is one that so many women must push through every single day. It’s a tireless battle for themselves and their beautiful children.
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