It was a polarised debate around the issue of parental leave and who should pay. It was an odd moment where you wonder if you’re hearing right when the Labor minister is arguing against big business having to pay a new tax and the Liberal minister arguing that the rights of women and families need to come first.
Huh? Did I miss the memo that said the major political parties would switch ideologies while I was sleeping? Or the tweet that said the Liberal party would now be spelt with a small ‘l’?
Everyone is talking about Tony Abbott’s proposed parental leave scheme, myself included. I started this week by having breakfast with Tony Abbott (you can read about the lead up to our peace talks here – I’ll be writing a column about how it went down shortly) and so I’ve watched the past couple of days unfold with great interest.
What do I think of this scheme that aims to deliver 6 months paid parental leave at your full salary up to $150K to be paid for by a levy on big business?
I think it’s a game-changer. Whether it comes off or not it’s radical and ambitious and sets a benchmark of 26 weeks instead of the 18 that was originally proposed by Labor. Some think it’s a shrewd and cynical political move that allows Abbott to reverse his reputation for being anti-women in an instant. It’s certainly stopped a lot of Abbott opponents in their tracks. If you’re a woman (or man) of baby-making age, it’s a difficult scheme to fault from a personal point of view.
I applaud the time-frame of 6 months and I applaud the idea of the payment being at full wage. No matter what you earn, your life is always structured around that income. Taking 6 months off is impossible if your maternity leave only covers a fraction of your former income.
Also, I don’t buy the argument by some that “we’d all like to take six months off but what if you don’t have kids?”.
The idea of parental leave is always far too focussed on the parents but let’s acknowledge the fact that the main beneficiary in having your mother or father around to be your primary carer in the first six months of your life is THE BABY.
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It matters to the children, if they could vote, it would be to see their mother at home, when they get home from school.
If you young ones, (Yes you could tell I was an oldie) didn't demand the four bedroom home with all the trimmings, you could afford to stay home with your kids.
If you can't afford to stay home, dont have the kids.
You shuttle the kids out the door in the early hours, and arrive home late, to take away, you don't have time to talk to your kids.
And you will wonder why they won't need you when they become teenagers.
i object to the taxpayers and the employers coughing up to pay for your finances.
If you are earning 150 thousand a year, you don't need paid maternity leave
I hope as I get older that I can still stay open-minded to the younger generations to understand their struggles in a changing/fast paced world.
Step down from your ivory tower and REALLY understand the cost of a mortgage on ANY house in today's market.
Ask their children if they prefer to play with their peers in after school care or be home with their mum. Most school kids I know LOVE after school care.
Take a look in the employment pages and report back on how many jobs you find which allow you be there before and after school.
Step inside the homes of working mums and you will find plenty of women quite capable of still keeping their finger on the pulse with what is happening in their children's lives. Women are amazing when it comes to multi-tasking.
If you choose to object to taxpayer dollars funding maternity leave then I will choose to object to paying the pension to baby boomers who came through a booming property market and should be set for life (as long as we're generalising).
Oh - and I am no bitter working mother defending my stance either. I am actually a full time stay at home mum who understands that some women are better mums when they are working and some women have no choice but to return to work because of the financial climate.
Does the fact that my husband and I fought hard to save the deposit and finally were able to buy a small, simple 2.5 bedroom, 1 bathroom house on the outskirts of the metro area, and still couldn't afford to have one of us completely without income mean we should not have children?
We aren't frittering our cash on luxuries: The only holiday away from home we've had in 13 years was 8 days interstate for our honeymoon; We have one car between us; We eat out at a restaurant probably once a month. We go to the movies about twice a year; I sew and opp-shop most of my own clothes.
I also wasn't born 50+ years earlier, when home-price to income ratio was much lower.
Thankfully my current employer has a different perspective on the importance of a) raising future generations and b) keeping skilled employees who are also parents.
This is not about supporting people's lifestyle, but recognising the financial pressures that frequently prevent people from having children.
p.s. yeah I know I'm coming in late, but this type of attitude really gets my goat!
I was lucky to receive 14 weeks full maternity leave pay from my employer. And I took off 16 months to be with my child. In my opinion maternity leave pay should be 12 months to encourage parents to remain at home with their baby in their most important developmental year.
As for the comment “we’d all like to take six months off but what if you don’t have kids?” - before I went on maternity leave some people kept saying 'enjoy your holidays'. People without children seem to think being with a child is equivalent to holidays. One guy even said to me that he was so jealous of me and thought it was so unfair that I had the excuse of having a baby to take time off!!!!!!!! Since having my daughter I have NEVER worked harder in my entire life (and I have in fact had several different careers!) Being a stay at home mother is not easy at all. It is 24 hours a day, 7 days a week work.