Yesterday, an 18-month-old South Australian girl was tragically killed when her dad reversed his car out of the driveway and accidentally ran over her.
In the hours since the accident, police have said the tragic death is a reminder for parents to take care and to always know where their children are.
This is a post from Mamamia contributor, Catherine King, about what we can all do to make sure children are safe at home.
One of the things I was not prepared for when I became a new Mum (and there were many at the age of 42!) was just how anxious I would feel about my son’s safety.
What was the safest pram, cot or car seat? Were the cords on our curtains out of reach? Could our dogs be allowed near him? Despite my best planning, I knew it was impossible to imagine every eventuality that could befall him.
By their very nature toddlers are enterprising, curious, unpredictable and most of all really really fast (My enterprising son worked out how to pull the vent off our central heating system when he was 13 months old and I caught him trying to climb into the heating ducts. Who knew you could do that!).
As he got older and thankfully has so far avoided serious harm, I’ve become a little more confident. But like any parent, I remain highly sensitive to stories that involve the death or injury of a child. Stories that would have been tragic but quickly forgotten before I had a child are now too often the subject of a ‘did you see the story about?’ conversation. Some I find simply too hard to read.
One that makes any parent shudder is the tragedy of children, who are usually under the age of five, killed or injured when run over in the driveway of their own home.
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I think we can prevent these tragedies happening by building better visibility for cars and educating parents. Many years ago, the rear window of cars used to be bigger and much lower so you could see more when reversing. Now, the rear window is not only smaller, but so high off the ground. I really notice this with the hatchbacks I've owned. Also, I think parents do need to be made more aware of the dangers of reversing cars and keeping children inside or erecting a fence around driveways.
Re: Driveway tragedies: Thank you for your comments Catherine King. This is really tragic! Seven children a year, thats nearly 1 child every 8 weeks. I am wondering about the necessity for SUV's and 4x4's and 'people mover' vehicles for the average family? I suspect that these vehicles are mainly implicated in these incidents? The problem is visiblitly from the drivers seat. Due to the sheer bulk of the frame, the front and the back of vehicle are very high off the ground making it impossible to see any small obstruction or child from the drivers seat. I have a young family and wouldn't buy a SUV purely for this reason, they just aren't safe. We purchased a mid sized station wagon. When reversing I always make sure my partner has the little ones with him on the deck where I can see them. At sporting grounds/play grounds where there are small children and I am anxious about the possibilty, I get out of the car and have a quick look around to see there are no littlies in the path of my car. For years I have been waiting for a television advertising campaign highlighting the dangers of children/driveways/reversing cars, similar to the the brilliant Worksafe ads.