Okay, straight up, I have used Childcare services, on and off, for the past 13 years.
For one reason and one reason only.
I work.
So, my first instinct – when I heard about the proposed new childcare policy that the Abbott Government wants to implement, the one where they not only intend to limit available places to parents who don’t work but also stop the subsidisation – was to agree.
To say that, hell yes, if you aren’t at work, then you shouldn’t be given priority over working parents and yes, if you are lucky enough to snare a spot, you most definitely SHOULD pay full price for it.
But then I realised that an inflammatory issue was once again being used as a tool to divide and conquer us not only as parents, but as a nation.
And it’s time for that shit to stop.
I’m not saying that what I’m about to say here will make you all happy, in fact, I’m fairly confident that it won’t, but it is my hope that you will at least give it some consideration. That you, like I have done, will try and see it from the other person’s perspective.
Please don’t get me wrong. I don’t believe that stay at home parents shouldn’t be able to access childcare, they most certainly should. I do believe however, that as it stands, the childcare system (and the accessibility and affordability of it) is fundamentally flawed.
And it has been for a very long time.
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We are not child care workers... we are early childhood educators. You're correct that we are highly undervalued. Using the correct titles is a start to changing that.
Has anyone mentions fathers in this debate?!
The whole arguement about which mother is entitled to use childcare is wrong.
The means test for childcare rebates is based on JOINT incomes. That's why as a SAHM I am not entitled to it. I pay zero tax at the moment, my partner pays a lot of tax. So if the whole argument is based purely on economics, then as a FAMILY, my child is entitled to use childcare. Our JOINT contribution helps subsidise the system.
It's awful that we are comparing working mums v non-working mums. The government is happy to take my partners income into consideration for means testing, so lets all look at this issue as a FAMILY issue.
The reason we decided that I would be a SAHM, is so that I facilitate my partner's demanding job, with long hours, and a lot of travel. It's very degrading that some people assume I am not "contributing". Many FAMILIES are in the same boat, with one partner working long hours, or FIFO.
Well done the Abbott govt for totally deflecting blame for the inadequate childcare and preschool education system we have at the moment.
Childcare always comes down to a women's issue, but lets use the emotion we all have here and say enough is enough! We need to improve the system and that is not going to happen if we are pitted against each other.
And for the record, our kids were lucky to get places at a community preschool, so we are not clogging up the long day care spots.