Dear Hayley,
I never expected to be writing this letter. My current circumstances, a heavy conscience and not knowing whether these words will help or hurt you have led me to put great thought into them. I feel that if you ever read it you will immediately know it is meant for you, and that deep down you always knew one day you would receive a letter from someone like me.
I’m listening to ‘I’m Not The Only One’ by Sam Smith, thinking how many times I’ve felt this sentiment, and how many times you must have sensed and probably tried to ignore that you are not the only one in your husband’s life. If I was in your position, I honestly don’t know if I would want to know the truth: that Hugh has betrayed us both, though his betrayal of you far outweighs his of me.
I first met Hugh five years ago through a mutual friend in the entertainment industry. I was young, naive and eager to find my place in the world. I found myself in awe of Hugh professionally, but repulsed by him personally. The blonde who arrived late at night, halfway through a business dinner, should have been a warning sign that he was a womaniser who enjoyed the thrill of the chase. Never would I have expected that one day I would be in her shoes.
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The mention of sexual abuse screams of intimacy issues resulting in a 'safe' relationship with an unavailable man. Time to resolve the trauma to ensure this doesn't happen again.
Oh my....I read this and could so relate! I had this happen to me once. People have the misconception that the mistress is somehow a "sexy temptress who steals a devoted married man", when in fact, these guys are the masters of puppetry, lying back and forth and playing on the sympathies of women.
Even when I learned about the wife, I was told "it is over. She's terrible to me! She's crazy.". I never would have considered myself a fool but I ended up being a fool for a man like this and utter heartbreak was my karma.
Do not be so quick to judge the other woman. She only know what he tells her. And he knows all the players of the game intimately and how and what to say to get what he wants.
But I have learned that if he will do it FOR you, he will do it TO you as well.
been there-exactly same address. The fact is this man who deceived me was with the woman he had cheated with when married. Except she knew he was married and she was cheating on her husband. Her karma, too. If he cheats with you he WILL cheat on you and he did, with mioux. I know so much from my relationship with the ex-wife. He has never married the current woman, just lives with her in her house. The slime one finds in life-ageless.