In the latest facepalm-inducing response to the issue of violence against women, reputable publisher the Washington Post has printed an op-ed piece claiming the best way for women to avoid violence is to get married.
The piece, penned by Professors W. Bradford Wilcox and Robin Fretwell Wilson, was originally titled “One way to end violence against women? Stop taking lovers and get married. The data shows that #yesallwomen would be safer hitched to their baby daddies.”
Yes, we’re not even making this up.
Within 20 minutes, the offending title was changed to the somewhat more benign, “One way to end violence against women? Married dads. The data shows that #yesallwomen would be safer with fewer boyfriends around their kids.”
The article itself was just as shocking as you’d expect. Basically, the authors rounded up a whole bunch of statistics to “prove” that married women are notably safer than their unmarried peers.
Here’s an extract:
But marriage also seems to cause men to behave better. That’s because men tend to settle down after they marry, to be more attentive to the expectations of friends and kin, to be more faithful, and to be more committed to their partners—factors that minimize the risk of violence. What’s more: women who are married are more likely to live in safer neighbourhoods, to have a partner who is watching out for their physical safety, and—for obvious reasons—to spend less time in settings that increase their risk of rape, robbery, and assaults.
Unsurprisingly the piece was met with huge online backlash.
Twitter user Reagan Gomez tweeted: “Washington post is out here acting a damn fool. SMH. End violence against women with marriage?? FOH. Victim blame then blame again.”
Another commentator, Victoria McNally wrote: “YES MARRIAGE WILL SOLVE VIOLENCE AGAIN WOMEN NO ONE HAS EVER BEATEN A *WIFE* HAHAHA IT’S NOT LIKE WE’VE NAMED SHIRTS AFTER IT”.
Top Comments
They may have thrown up some stats but as others pointed out correlation doesn't equal causation and DV (like rape) is one of those crimes that may not be properly reported.
I had real trouble with their statement "marriage also seems to cause men to behave better." All this implies to me is that men need a woman around to encourage them to behave, as clearly they are unable to behave otherwise. If so, it's a sad indictment on men.
1 in 5? Really? My god. I hope I have never had a friend who is suffering and I have not been aware!! That statistic is staggering!!