By RAEWYN CONNELL
The recent outcry in Sydney about “alcohol-fuelled violence” has many people asking whether young men are out of control, or whether alcohol, or our hyper-masculine culture, might be to blame.
Now the New South Wales Premier, Barry O’Farrell, has announced lock-outs for new customers and a cease of alcohol trading by 3am, while mandatory minimum sentences of eight years in jail will apply for fatal one-punch attacks involving alcohol and drugs.
In the context of these announcements we should remember that, despite these awful recent cases, Sydney is a relatively safe city, compared with Johannesburg in South Africa, or Ciudad Juárez in Mexico, or New York. And if we are concerned with men’s violence in Australia, the half-hidden epidemics of family violence, sexual harassment and rape are much wider problems than street bashings by strangers.
Top Comments
A lot of suggestions and "solutions" that are being thrown are only band aids. I'm a believer in getting to the root cause, not just patching up the symptoms.
Why are some people able to go out on the town, drink until 5am and have the time of their life whilst some people have 3 drinks then turn into a raging bull? What's the difference?
All of use are brought up with different experiences but most of us have been brought up in a society where we're fully aware of the social norms, rules and consequences. Why do some choose to ignore them?
Some people reading this can probably relate to the feeling of peace and relief after letting out something that's been bottled up, e.g. finally telling that big family secret, or having a good cry after a stressful 6 months of work. Some people don't know how to let out all the stuff that's been bottled up - they choose to become numb to it by continually hitting the piss or taking drugs like they're going out of style.
Some people have so much stored up that it comes out as road rage, anger at work or hitting some random person on the street.
Best article in ages!