What would you do? What should society do?
What if your son’s best friend had a secret childhood criminal record?
What if your son’s best friend had murdered his own father when he was eight?
Would you want to know? Would you let them stay friends?
What if you were told he had been “rehabilitated”?
Would you feel comfortable then? Would you ever feel okay about letting your children attend the same school as a murder?
That’s the situation facing a community in the US state of Arizona at the moment.
A community faced with a dilemma which raises so many questions: Do they believe in the possibility of redemption? Do they believe in second chances?
The unnamed community will soon have a 15-year-old boy joining their high school. That teenager was once a little boy who shot his father and another man dead in cold blood.
The teen has been assessed as safe to join a local school, a local community, to assimilate — but there’s no escaping the fact he is a convicted killer.
How would you feel?
When he was just eight years old, the boy shot his father and a friend of his father with a gun from the family home.
The child pleaded guilty to the murders of the two men, entering into a plea agreement that ensured diagnostic evaluations and mental health examinations when he was 12, 15, and 17 to determine whether he will pose any danger in the future.
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I think he should be given the benefit of the doubt.
I really don't agree with the phrase "My duty is to MY children- to their safety, to their wellbeing". We don't live in a vacuum and I believe we do have an obligation to other people in our community. Which might sometimes include difficult situations like the one being discussed above. I would probably want to know the circumstances surrounding the murders, but ultimately, he was 8 at the time.
Also the "my duty is to MY children" line is one frequently not accepted for non-vaxxers so I don't think it should be acceptable in this case either.
Trouble is, if he then decided to go Columbine at your child's school, that view would be of little help. Kid's clearly got major problems and at the very least should be in a special-needs type of high school, with a lot of individual attention paid to him (and the other children for their own various reasons), rather than chucked anonymously into the rough-and-tumble emotional turmoil of a normal high school. I feel sorry for the teachers personally. Many of them are not equipped to deal with an obviously mentally fragile person who is an actual murderer and they have their safety AND those of the other kids to consider. As a parent, I do not give the tiniest little smidge of a toot about this child when it comes to my own children. I think many of us feel the same. Of course he needs an education and as much help as possible, yes he was just a little kid at the time, but he did it, clearly knew precisely what he was doing and has had ''anger issues'' since. My children require protection from such a person. He is one, society at large is many, majority rules.