They don’t want a baby. They don’t want an STI. But they don’t want to use contraception…
One young woman says she stopped taking contraception altogether because she “felt weird taking the pill for so long”.
Another says she doesn’t use any birth control at all because she “feels” she’s infertile — even though she’s just 23, and no doctor has told her that.
Others still claim they fear the “unnatural devices or chemicals” in some contraceptives, or that latex irritates their skin, or that the “pull-out-and-pray method” has been working just fine so far… so it must be alright.
These are not women without options. These are not women in a developing country. These are the candid online admissions of real-life women who regularly have unprotected sex.
In Australia, a staggering one-third of fertile women aged 18-44 don’t use contraception, according to one 2011 survey.* Once women actively planning a pregnancy or currently pregnant are factored in, around 17 percent of Australian women avoid birth control — despite not wanting a baby.
In other words, these women don’t want to get pregnant. But they don’t want to use contraception, either.
Related: The strangest misconceptions kids have about sex.
Given that at least 85 percent of women will fall pregnant within a year of having unprotected sex, that logic seems baffling. The oral contraceptive pill is often lauded as one of the greatest-ever advances in medical technology: why would you ignore its benefits, or at least consider other widely available options like condoms?
Top Comments
I am in long term relationship (married) and have tried the pill, implanon etc etc. we've used condoms for the last 5 years with no pregnancies. Then decided to try for kids and BAM! happened our first time without contraception. I have girlfriends (in relationships) who use the withdrawal method and I have to say I was shocked the first time They mentioned it. Needless to say, none are preg yet but I see it as terribly irresponsible !(knowing they don't want kids yet)
I have a very bright friend with 2 university degrees who often has to take the Morning After Pill because she 'forgets' to use condoms during casual sex. She doesn't like the idea of the Pill or an IUD as they are 'unnatural chemicals' but is happy to get drunk 3 times a week, take dodgy pills at music festivals and snort coke. I don't get it.