Pegging. It can be pleasurable, relationship building and (apparently) it’s changing the world.
First up, pegging is the act of a woman penetrating a man during sex using a strap-on. It gives the man pleasure, by stimulating the prostate gland, and also gives the female pleasure in playing the dominant, penetrative role during sex. Experts say it requires “communication, relaxation and lubrication”.
It’s also said to help men to better understand women’s experience during sex, and this – “seeing things from another’s perspective” – is something that’s healthy in any relationship. (But it doesn’t always come hand-in-hand with sexual pleasure.)
And then there is it’s recent entry into pop culture via the TV series Broad City, where Abbi finally gets her shot with her neighbour. Jeremy, and he surprises her with a request for pegging.
“Once you’ve experienced something from another person’s perspective, it’s much easier to imagine what it’s like for them,” sexuality author and educator Charlie Glickman wrote for Make Love Not Porn. “That’s one reason why I think pegging can go a long way toward improving things. And while the main reason people do it is because it’s lots of fun, I think there’s an added benefit that lots of folks don’t know about.
What is this “added benefits”, or how is it “improving things”?
On one hand, pegging is debunking the myth that only homosexual men can derive pleasure from penetration. On the other, it’s allowing men and women to experience what sex is like for their partner. Particularly for men, Glickman said, this can help them better understand the ‘internal’ sensation women experience during sex.
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Speaking as a gay guy (who was once married) and having had extensive experience with bi and "straight" guys (probably some of your husbands/partners!) once these guys experience any rear end action they tend to love it and want more of it. Asking a straight guy if he's ever been rimmed gets their intrigue going (especially if they've never heard of the term) to then a bit of digital stimulation has them wanting more. What a lot of people don't know is the rectum can be almost as sensitive as the clitoris (judging moan for moan from women and men) when exposed so some serious tongue action. Then when relaxed and getting into some "pegging" (I love that now we have a nice and apparently acceptable name for sodomy) and prostrate play these men finally have a chance to see what a lot of the gay guys get up to. That and sex on tap. You girls keep up the good work with your conversion therapy!
Hi Hon, it looks like you're happy to see me or is that .... oh wait!
How the tables have turned. ;o)