How many people do you need to see you give birth?
A new childbirth trend has arrived, and it’s rather shudder-inducing.
This time, the movement doesn’t involve hipster baby names, oversharing on social media or even eating the placenta (although yes, those are all trends that you should TOTALLY get into).
The newest concept is called “crowdbirthing,” and it involves having a whole bunch of people (a “crowd,” if you will) in the room when you delivery the baby.
According to a survey by UK-based video blogging website Channel Mum, women in their teens and twenties are big fans of the trend.
They’re increasingly inviting their friends into the maternity suite, and we’re not just talking about your partner, medical staff and mum, either. According to the survey, an average of eight people were present for the births of the 2000-odd women aged 16-29 years old they surveyed.
Yeah, we know. EIGHT PEOPLE. And that doesn’t include the medical staff.
So: Your partner, maybe your mum and then… hang on, who are those other six?
According to the research, mother’s partners and maternal grandmothers are now the most popular other witnesses to the birth, followed by mothers-in-law. That’s not to say men aren’t ever welcome in the room, though: One in 25 young women had their own dad present at the labour, apparently.
Related: A trend called “baby shaming” is happening.
Oh, and some mothers took as many as fifteen people into the delivery suite, not including hospital employees. Eep.
Channel Mum founder Siobhan Freegard the trend fit in well with Millenials’ fondness for sharing their intimate moments.
“The younger generation share are used to sharing every aspect of their lives, so why not birth?,” Ms Freegard said.
Top Comments
I had my husband, my mum and my mother in law. My mother and I are very close, and both my husband and I wanted her there. My sister in law doesn't want children neither does my brother in law, so we thought we would invite my mother in law to part of her grandchildren being born. I wasn't uncomfortable, I was in oain, and honestly, I doubt I would have noticed if the entire world watched, lol.
Couldn't think of anything worse! Our whole plan was my child's father only. My mum was with me until a point and then gracefully kissed me on the head, wished me luck and exited stage left to give us the space to do our thing. Call me selfish, but I also asked for us to have almost two hours alone after the baby was born before we let any of the family sitting in the waiting room in. Giving birth is not a spectator sport!