A New Zealand radio host became emotional when calling out those who somehow blamed Grace Millane for her own death while backpacking solo across the country.
The 22-year-old former student was one leg through an around-the-world trip and had just begun the next when she was found dead in the Waitakere Ranges, west of Auckland last week.
A 26-year-old man, whom it’s believed she had been on a Tinder date with, has been charged with her murder after she was last seen alive with a “male companion” at the hotel in Auckland where he lived.
Neither of these details should have been interpreted as somehow making her murder her fault, and yet across sections of the community, they have been.
Meg Annear, a breakfast radio host for The Edge’s Dom, Meg and Randell show, saw this and chose to call out the sexist thinking.
“I have heard and seen too many comments asking the question what was she doing travelling by herself. Or whether she was on a Tinder date or not,” Meg said on-air as she fought back tears.
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Yes, Grace was not from New Zealand, she was there on holiday. On holiday in a place where at least tens of thousands of young women freely live, work and study, existing without constant male escorts in New Zealand. Those Kiwi women also go on firsts dates with men. Explain to me how travelling in New Zealand, rather than living in New Zealand, made Grace any more a target than all those women. Travelling was not the cause of her death. I am tired of traveling getting the blame. You may as well say women do not have a right to exist in public in society. And we all know there are other far-off countries that operate precisely that way. If solo travel is so risky, what advice would you offer to the women who actually live in those places where solo travellers go to protect themselves?
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In the same vein, Jill Meagher (2012) and Eurydice Dixon (2018), both living in Melbourne, were just a few hundred metres from their homes, their own beds and their loved ones when they were raped and killed.
India Chipchase (2016) was raped and killed in her hometown in Northampton, UK, her body was found 6km from her home. It is a 2-hour drive from Essex, where Grace Millane lived.
In contrast, Grace Millane was about 18,000km from her home, her bed, her loved ones.
So which is the problem, which is the risk? Travelling, or staying close to home?
Some might even go so far as to say women should not visit beaches, or take their dogs for a walk, following the recent murder of Toyah Cordingley in Queensland. I mean, did those activities put her in the path of the freak that killed her?
It seems it doesn't matter where you go, or where you don't go, what you do, or don't do, these rapist-murderers are there, just waiting for the opportunity. The 'female travelling' argument is null and void.
I’m so glad that the NZ radio host reiterated how important it is to use the safety features on our phones. We must always have a plan with regards to our own safety. It’s scary to think about how easily a serial killer / rapist could use Tinder or other online platforms to find victims. For example Craigslist in the USA has been linked to over a 100 internet homicides. Reducing risk is somewhat within our control while we cannot control the actions of a twisted mind.