Ruby Rose talks about her early gender confusion.
She of the pouty-lipped, severely-cropped, androgynous beauty, Ruby Rose, saved up for gender-reassignment surgery from the age of 5.
The newly-famous-in-America star, whose addition to the cast of Orange is the New Black has elicited much fevered girl-crushing, has talked about her gender fluidity before, saying she feels neither fully female nor fully male.
Her confusion was so great that as a child, she decided she would have surgery to become a boy in order to feel comfortable in her own skin.
“I had this jar that I would collect dollars. In fact, we were so poor it would’ve been cents,” she told Access Hollywood.
“So I probably had like, 19 cents, to go towards this surgery that I didn’t really know a lot about. I think I’d seen a daytime documentary, probably something on Oprah, and I thought, ‘That’s what I’m going to do’.”
She relates a story about people being unsure as to her sex as a child.
“I was in a restaurant and the waiter said to my dad, ‘We’re trying to work out, is she a beautiful girl or a handsome boy?'”
Her father told the waiter that Rose was a beautiful girl but she felt more like a handsome boy.
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I just love Ruby Rose. She has a way of putting really complex issues into simple words, that just make sense. This must be such a difficult issue for people to face, so great to hear how supporting her family where.
it makes me wonder, how many kids are being given the go-ahead to start hormonal treatments for gender reassignment, when all they need is permission to be themselves? There's so much emphasis on the fact that girls wear pink and boys wear blue, or girls play with dolls while boys play with cars, or even girls do dancing while boys play soccer - but if those stereotypes were stripped away and children could just be children, would there be so many wishing to change gender?