Marina McDonald has long been fearful of breast cancer.
That’s the very reason the mother-of-two is vigilant with getting yearly breast checks and mammograms – she’s educated, and is acutely aware how quickly a cancer diagnosis can rip her away from her family.
Her story begins on an otherwise nondescript day in 2013, when during a routine scan she noticed her GP hovering around a small spot on her left breast. Marina would soon be told she was dangerously sick with cancer, a kind so insidious that it slipped past the prior checks, yet so ferocious that it was an immediate threat to her life.
At 43 years old, Marina wasn’t ready to leave behind her husband, Surend, and young kids, Sydney, then three, and Noah, seven. She would do whatever it took to give herself the best chance of survival.
She would convince her hesitant doctor to give her a double-mastectomy.
LISTEN: Lisa Wilkinson explains Marina’s moving story to Mia Freedman on No Filter. (Post continues…)
“I just thought ‘let’s do whatever we have to do to give me longer with my kids’,” she tells me matter-of-factly, largely unperturbed at the thought of losing her breasts, which she says “really didn’t bother me that much”.
Knowing she would be undergoing an incomparably invasive surgery and looking for comfort, Marina googled images of women post operation. She was met with a scrolling wall of “clinical, faceless images”, ones that served a practical purpose, not an emotional one. While those blueish photographs taken in doctors surgeries and dotted through pages of medical journals were well and good, Marina wanted to see the person behind the operation. She wanted to know these women themselves. Their essence, their stories.
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Very smart she pushed and went ahead with a having mastectomy best chance to save her life. Sometimes it is as simple as choosing your breast or your life.