Yesterday was International Women’s Day.
A day for celebrating and recognising the strong, intelligent and influential women in our lives.
For blogger Constance Hall, it was an opportunity to think about the system of value we place on women’s bodies, and the expectations we instill in our children. Even without meaning to.
“I advocate nakedness around your children, homes and husbands,” she posted on her Facebook. Hall wants to send a powerful message to her children.
“I don’t want my boys expectations of women to resemble those that they see in magazines or TV nor do I want my girls expectations of themselves to,” she wrote.
The 32-year-old mother of three is always frank about her family and her body, and says she wants to encourage her followers, who she calls Queens, to change the way they perceive and project an ideal body image.
“I believe that with the help of Queens loving themselves the next generations definition of beauty will be radically different,” she posted. “And no longer will we idolise the unrealistic airbrushed idea of perfection that causes so much self doubt and depression.”
On a day celebrating women, Hall reminded her followers that we come in all shapes, sizes and states of undress.
“If you have stretch marks, a hairy minge, saggy boobs, a flat bum, smile lines, a wobbly belly, cellulite, a tiny chest, or any other REAL women women traits,” she wrote, “the world needs to be flooded with your image.”
We live in a world were a naked selfie of someone like Kim Kardashian goes viral in seconds. Hall believes it is important the whole world, especially our children, know about diversity in bodies.
Top Comments
How about everyone just parents the way they feel comfortable with and the way that works for them. I'm sick of being told to do this or that - whether it's breastfeeding, sleep training, screen time or being naked - because it's what's best for my children because I do what *I* think is best for my kids everyday!
My mother used to spend a lot of time naked when I was a kid but also when I was a teenager and honestly, I don't thank her for leaving that image in my head. I would rather that I couldn't picture what my parents looked like naked. That might be just me though. I will say though that if this is a philosophy you follow, do your kids a favor and don't walk around the house naked when their friends are over.
I am completely and utterly in love with this woman - i don't have a life anything like hers, nor will i ever be as ballsy as she is, but her voice just completely resonates with me. Constance Hall is the voice of reason we all need - she's honest, raw, loving, and tolerant. Long live Queen Constance!