Former journalist Cassandra Thorburn has responded to the opinion article that treated her as evidence in why women shouldn’t give up work after childbirth — and in the process, taken a stand for star-at-home mothers.
The piece, published on News Corp websites this week, referenced a social media post Thorburn made congratulating herself on the part she played in husband and Today Show co-host Karl Stefanovic’s success.
“Apparently Today Show finally won a year,” the mother-of-three wrote on Facebook.
“This took a huge toll on my family and I, and I’m congratulating myself today for all the effort that went into making that (the ratings) happen.”
The opinion drew off those words to use the former journalist as exhibit A in why mothers should never fully leave the workforce.
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I understand that the letter was in response to Angela Mollard's opinion piece, where she suggested that women should not quit their jobs to look after their kids, and that she saw the photo of Karl celebrating and drinking with his workmates and couldn't help but think of what Cassandra was doing - possibly at home alone with the kids. The photo in question had nobody's partners in it - it appears to be only the staff connected with the show, so it was completely irrelevant that they had split. I wish everyone would stop criticizing each other for making a decision that is right for them. My brother is a stay at home dad with a professional wife. My sister only works part time to look after her kids. I work full time and my children have been in childcare. All of us are happy with our decisions. I don't think you should forgo being a SAHM, just in case you might split - do what is right for you, period. If you read up on Lisa Wilkinson, Karl's co-host, you'll find that her husband left his radio show, so Lisa could further her career, because they could not each have such demanding jobs as parents. No one is criticizing his decision.
are SAHM's and working mums REALLY tearing each other down ?? I've been a SAHM for 7 years now and l have NEVER had anyone take issue with the choice we made as a family. Sure, l've been ignored or snubbed at social functions, usually by people who have never met me before ( and usually men) but i'm never going to see them again so like l care what they think of me ( one less douche to have to pay attention to).
I can't help but often wonder if this is an online beat up and manufactured conflict aka click bait. Sure you get the occasional knob/troll who feels compelled to have a dig - usually at complete strangers- but they are easily ignored. I honestly have never been bitched at by a working mum and l have never reciprocated. Baffles me where this 'outrage' came from
I'm a working mum and I've never recieved negativity or jibes from my sahm friends and family. I'm sure there are judgemental people out there but fir the most i think it's media beat up
I'm thinking it is.... i have so many mum family and friends all doing their parenting as best as they can in what ever way works for them and their family ; with no judgements from anyone as far as l'm aware of ! sure l get the occasional person who is dismissive of me when they ask the inevitable 'what do you do?' question at functions , but that's usually from men and much older men at that ( like l give a rats ass what they think anyway)