Sometimes, I feel like it’s eating mine. This may be because this website is hungry – no, starving – and demands I feed it many times every day. EVERY. DAY. MANY. TIMES.
But it’s also my personality to get very full-on about things. It’s a miracle I’ve never been an alcoholic or a drug addict. My most notable addictions are to tea and treadmills. And my computer, natch. I am a voracious consumer and a voracious communicator. I love to read and I love to write. The internet is an endless playground and also, sometimes like a casino – where everything is geared to detaching you from reality and keeping you there for as long as possible. Or is it just me?
There’s a new software program – ironically called “Freedom” – and it goes like this:
Freedom will disable the networking, only on a Mac computer, for
periods of anywhere from one minute to eight hours. No Web sites, no
e-mail, no instant messaging, no online shopping, no Facebook, no
Twitter, no Jezebel, no iTunes store, no streaming anything. Once it is
turned on, as it hilariously claims, “Freedom enforces freedom”; you
cannot turn it off without rebooting your computer.
This description comes from a feature written on Salon by a woman who was feeling stressed by the constant demands of her online life and her inability to get anything done. So she downloaded Freedom to get some. She writes:
I needed to stop. I’d like a world in which I didn’t check my e-mail
for the last two hours of the evening, or on the weekends. On
vacations, I’m very good at slapping up a “Nobody’s Home” automatic
message and disconnecting. But in daily life, it’s not so easy.
Professional communications (and expectations) now roll in on a 24-hour
cycle, and as long as I’m at my computer, maybe I should just glance at
Eater.com and see if there’s anything interesting …
I needed
restriction, and not the kind my boyfriend offered when he suggested
helpfully that he take the modem away. I didn’t need a minder to ground
me. I needed to ground myself.
After starting with a 5 minute trial, the author went back for more. Here’s how it turned out:
It’s been about a week with Freedom, and I like it, I really do,
even if I’m a bit ashamed that I need it. I still use it mostly for
about 15- or 30-minute periods.
I have gotten an immense amount
of work done, and it has demonstrated, again and again, in ways that
I’ve known intellectually but not viscerally, how Web-dependent I have
become. And I’m not referring to connectivity simply as a time-waster
or procrastination tool, but as a work resource. Where once I would
have reached for dictionaries or thesauri, or written notes and
references, I have found exactly how hungry — and temporarily starved
— I’ve become for all the instant information I’m so used to having at
my fingertips.
Top Comments
I need Freedom. I'm a distance education student and I'm addicted. Obsessed. I need to log off and get my life back! Pitty I don't have a Mac.
My name is JLo and I am an addict. An internet addict. It first started 5 yrs ago when I was pregnant with my first child and started looking on ebay for baby clothes/cot/bouncers et. Messenger was my other fun thing at the time. I dumped ebay and decided to check out facebook, and moved from fav application to another. I then got bored with facebook compared to my new favourite - I had by then stumbled across mamamia and found my need to 'just pop on the net for a minute' increase. I have recently become slowly addicted to twitter but mamamia is still my first stop once I log on.
My best friend can't stop laughing at me and often tell people about my addiction and its increase over the last few years. Thank god I am happily attached as I could so see myself addicted to RSVP!!!
Seriously though, every now and then I have to give myself (and my family) a 'break' from the net. I usually do this the same time Brett promises to detact his ear from his iphone and I hide the little one's DVDs, we spend a lot more time outside when we are all 'unplugged'.