“I thought I’d just hurt myself in the garden. But they’ve just told me I’ve got bowel cancer.”
This was the phone call my mum received from my nan almost 10 years ago. At the time, her diagnosis didn’t seem real to me. At 14, I’d never heard of bowel cancer, let alone known or read about someone having it.
But for her, it was real. And uncomfortable. Embarrassing, even.
These are just some of the reasons we don’t hear enough about bowel cancer, and why many who are at-risk don’t know it themselves. Far from being a shameful disease, the outlook for bowel cancer patients is up there among the most positive. Well, as positive as it can get when we’re talking about cancer.
Thankfully, my nan was one of the lucky ones. Lucky because she survived, but also because she caught it early.
It’s true that we often don’t start to care about things until they touch our lives, or take someone from us. So here’s what I’ve learnt since bowel cancer almost took someone away from me.